Happiness lies in our own self

Life makes sure that it brings in its wake the most beautiful and the most dreadful experiences a man can go through. Its but natural that we face dejections and rejections, loss and failures. It really hurts, but thats the reason all these tragedies happen to us. Someone rightly quoted " Anything which doesnt kill you, only makes you stronger". The only thing we can do after being blown away by the strong winds of miseries is hold on to the pillars of our life and stand up and brush away the dust of those sorrows and move on. Yes,its not necessary that the pillars will be the same every time, but what is important is that you have the pillars to support you every time you fall and if you see carefully you will see that you always have atleast one person who is standing right besides you, you just need to give a call. Life is beautiful. Whatever it is like. Just sit down and look around you... think about the friend who said "you are really nice", or about the time you enjoyed a really warm cup of coffee with your family. You need not have 100 'happiest memories' to be happy, you just need those small moments of joy which you shared with your loved ones, or with your own beautiful self. When you love your own innerself, you will love the outside world better. Finally, it all lies within our mind. We have to believe in our own happiness. No one can make us happy if we are hell bent on being unhappy. We have to be optimistic, believe in people's goodness and our own.